FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT LEARNING TO DANCE

 

Can I really learn to dance from a video?

Would this video be a good compliment to taking a class or private lessons?

Should we choreograph a routine?

We put this off until the last minute. Can your video help us?

We have two left feet and feel hopeless when we try to dance. Can you help us?

How do we find a song for our first dance?

What Type of Dancing do we need to learn?

My fiancé is not interested in learning to dance. What can I do?

 

 

 

• Can I really learn to dance from a video?

Absolutely. It's like having your teachers at your house anytime you wish. We have strived each and every concern and question that you might have on the road to dancing together and have provided comprehensive, easy to follow instructions to get through most any problem you may encounter. It's a guaranteed success. AND, it's a whole lot of FUN!

 

 

 

 

 

• Would this video be a good compliment to taking a class or private lessons?

Yes! Most often when you take a private lesson or a class you receive a lot of information in a very short time. Steps, technique, tips, etc. The most common complaint among couples who take private lessons is that when they get home, they can't even remember half of what the teacher told them. The great thing about having an instructional video as a companion to lessons is that it's like taking your teacher home with you to help you through your practices.

 

 

 

 

 

• Should we choreograph a routine?

Probably not. Your wedding day is most likely going to be a whirlwind of activity from the time you get up in the morning to the time you get in the limousine to leave the reception. Do you really want to worry about remembering choreography with all the other things that will be going on that day? The likelyhood that you will get on the dance floor and "blank out" is high. However, It may be nice to choreograph a dip or spin at the beginning or the end of the dance. We've thrown in some simple but flashy entrances and endings on the video to give your first dance that extra little something.

 

 

 

 

 

• We put this off until the last minute. Can your video help us?

Yes! This is actually one of the most common questions we get. With all you've had to think about, you've accidentally put off learning to dance until the last minute or perhaps even the last second. No problem. In a couple of hours you will be able view and practice enough material from the "basics" sections of the video to be moving around the floor to the music together. Our material is simple to learn and simple to execute. You'll be dancing in no time flat!

 

 

 

 

 

We have two left feet and feel hopeless when we try to dance. Can you help us?

Absolutely. MOST people feel this way. Over the years we have developed a style and a system of teaching that makes learning to dance absolutely painless. Many people have come to us with a fear of dancing, or the feeling that they had no rhythm, or the dreaded "two left feet". ALL, and I do mean all, of them learned how to successfully dance with their partner and to the music by following our simple system. You'll be amazed at what you can accomplish in just a few hours of your time.

 

 

 

 

 

• How do we find a song for our first dance?

We have included a list of suggested first dance songs on this website- with song clips that you can listen to and full lyrics for you to read. Choose a song that you both feel comfortable with- current pop hits are fine but will you still enjoy that song 5, 10, or 15 years from now? The more personal the song the better- one couple got engaged in Hawaii and so they chose a Ukelele version of “What a Wonderful World” for their first dance.

Tip: Be sure to check out full lyrics for any song that you are considering. Many songs sound romantic at first but the lyrics are actually quite the reverse! Our song list includes lyrics for the songs, if you are considering a song not on our list there are several good websites to look up lyrics on.

 

 

 

 

• What Type of Dancing do we need to learn?

That depends on what song you choose and/or how much time and effort you are willing to spend learning to dance. Foxtrot and slow dancing are the most common dances learned by wedding couples, are easy to learn (you can learn enough in one lesson to get out on the dance floor), and work well with slow swing songs and ballads. Waltz is very traditional and more formal than Foxtrot- Waltz songs are easy to recognize because of their 3 beat measures with a strong accent on the first beat (123 123). Swing is more relaxed and uptempo but still easy to learn in a short amount of time. Salsa, rumba, and cha cha are latin dances that are fun and can be done out at nightclubs but will require some more time to learn. Tango is very dramatic, but also one of the more difficult of the partner dances to master.

 

 

 

 

 

• My fiancé is not interested in learning to dance. What can I do?


Dancing should be fun and romantic- which will definitely not be the case if either of you feels too much pressure to dance. I have seen parents of the bride or groom “order” the couple to take dance lessons resulting in disastrous effects. Remember, you do not have to learn to dance- this is your day and you should enjoy it. If one of you is interested in learning but the other is resistant, try learning from an instructional video before going to a class or private lesson to build up confidence (often the main reason individuals are resistant to learning). Usually couples think that dancing will be much harder than it is, and once they discover that it isn’t too much work or that they can feel the beats in the music, they enjoy learning and actually want to do more. Private lessons are also a good way to start if either of you are nervous about learning in a crowd.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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